



Basic Practical Class Index (Click to Access)
IMULL Visual Diagram (Click to Access)
Ladder of Inference (Click to Access)
Make Class 4 even cleaner.
Use one basic exchange only. No second demo. No advanced sidebar unless placed after the class as “Advanced Note.”
Suggested Class 4 theme:
Example:
PBH: I feel behind.
Helper: [Pause and breathe] Behind?
PBH: Yes. I’m reacting to the feeling, not the task.
Helper: Enough to begin?
Teaching point:
When the PBH reaches a useful insight, do not add interpretation. Do not say, “So the first move may be noticing the feeling before choosing the task.” That takes over. The PBH already did enough.
Class 4 could teach:
When the PBH finds the lift, do not keep helping.
That is basic, concrete, and high-value.

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